梁志强一哭 我笑了

阳阳

wilson Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 12:00 am
You disappoint yr 1st wife,now u disappoint yr 2nd wife,u destroy all the hardwork u have build all these years.it’s over.

Jocelyn Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 12:02 am
The past few days of reports of your ‘affairs’, made me realized about the common comments that most Singaporeans have! Bloggers who visit Jack Neo’s blog, please read the following-
Who are we to comment on his behaviour, his affairs, let alone how he handle the problem? Are we that perfect as humans? No, OF COURSE WE ARE NOT! Everyone made mistake. I do not believed that no one made mistake! Who are we to judge what kind of person Jack is? Are we that perfect as a ‘God’ to make that judgement? I urge everyone here to think and look at one’s own self before we judge or comment on another. Who gives us the right to condemn him? Has anyone put aside his personal affairs and just judge on his work performance? NO. During these period of time, all I heard from the reports are people condemning him, some even say they will not support his movies etc… Don’t all of you think it’s ridiculous? Is it fair to him as a person? When he produce good movies and even won an award, does the media or public stirred a big fuss? But when he make a mistake, the whole of Singapore started to condemn him to death sentence. Has anyone think how it feels when you will be in that situation? Of course not!!! I strongly urge fans to look out of the box and not just targeting his personal problems!

Secondly; Who are we to comment on the actions of his wife? It is very easy for many women to say that they will divorce the husband if he is having an affairs. But when you are put in that situation, you may think twice!!! Who are we to comments on their relationship when we, ourselves are not good in handling relationships.

Thirdly; For those women who claimed to be involved, this is the only comment I had for all of you- It takes 2 hands to clap!If you do not be tempted, why should he even have a chance? Blame on yourself! In evey action, there is always consequences to bear. It is reported that some of you wanna get fame but please, don’t cheapen urself and give yourself some respect and dignity as a woman!

Lastly, we should always remember good things that the person does and don’t condemn a person because of a mistake. And do not judge others when we are not perfect ourself.

sin ai Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 12:03 am
“求祢将我的罪孽洗除诤尽。并洁除我的罪！因为我知道我的过犯，我的罪常在我面前。我向祢犯罪，唯独得罪了你，在祢眼前行了这恶，以致祢责备我的时候显为公义；判断我的时候显为清正。” 诗篇51：2-4

梁导..只要知错能改，上帝的慈爱永远长存！

Eric Lai Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 12:10 am
加油！！！我会支持你的。。。
人谁无过？？男人经常都是用下半身思考的。。。
以后真的不要再犯错就可以了。。。
我们人往往在做错事后才学会珍惜。。。
我知道你已明白这道理了。。
所以真的要好好珍惜你太太，孩子，和家人咯。。。。
加油！！！！。。。。。

Jen Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 7:54 am
God’s love is wasted on people like you

Tan ah teck Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:00 am
Hi jack I sarpok u, that girl so ugly good that u dump her , she’s the one gana owned ha ha

Lynn Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:06 am
Just put yourself in those women’s shoes. If a 50 year old do this to your daughter how will you feel? Is an apology really enough? goodness gracious me!

Angels Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:06 am
I feel sad when I saw what has happened to Jack’s family.
I hope that all the unhappiness will be over soon and Jack’s family will
grow even stronger after this.

Jack, you have a good family and I’m sure you will treasure your family even more from now on.

Cheer up and be strong!

Sincere best wishes  

Jack Wood Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:26 am
So how’s your feeling now, feel bad right?, i think it will be over for you in a few months time, please bear it and everything will be back to normal as what you did.

Jeffrey Sin Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:27 am
Jocelyn, I agree with what you had said. We are in no position to comment on others… and I believe we should be giving the guy a room to breath, another chance. If you had made a mistake, would you also wish that others will forgive you?

Frankly speaking, Jack’s movies had inspired many of us. I love his movie “三個好人”. I was in prison since teenage, and had not learn my ways. in my mid 20s, I had wanted to change, but had not bee accepted by the society and people around me, couldn’t get a job and such, and so I kept going back to prison within 3 months of my release. That was just pure weak in my part and being unable to take the pressure of can’t get a job, I turn back to crime.

But his movie… “三個好人”, had inspired me, and what Mark Lee had portrayed inside, that’s me. Being inspired, I hanged on, and I can proudly say that I am free from prison for 5 years now, and am still with the company for almost 2 years now.

I am not here to tell you on my stories, as it will either be like a movie, or it will bore you guys to sleep. My point here is… How many of Jack Neo’s movies had inspire us in our everyday life? We all have days when we had been down in our life. But his movies and gag’s had always done it’s part and make us smile, laugh, and even inspire us to move on. Why didn’t we give the man the credit for what he had done TO OUR LIFE, and yet keep on complaining on what he DID NOT DO ON OUR LIFE?

Finally, this is the guy’s private affairs. So let him go settle this himself, and move on.

Here’s to Jack:

Jack, thank you for the movies which inspired us in our life, and the laughters which you had brought to us in your gigs. I owe what I have to you here. If not for your movies, I believe there would be that much laughter in my life. Please go settle your matters, and come back with more better, funnier and life inspiring movies for us ok? Cheers and God bless.

阳阳

ladytulip Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:38 am
你说以后你对别的女孩会特别小心以免引起误会？这么说，以前你对那些女生性骚扰也是个误会？是人家自己一厢情愿？？？看来你更本就没悔改！！！还不敢认错！这件事情从头到尾，你都没处理得像个真正的男人，还是去做回你的梁细妹吧！

NotPerfect Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:39 am
I agree with what Jocelyn wrote (comment 18). I had never judge u as only God can judge us. Yes, what happened is morally wrong, but there are thousands of such behaviours happening out there, even in the midst of the current saga. Lots of people comment of what Jack had done, blah blah blah… but I believe among these people, there will be people who had done the same wrong (even if it’s just a thought)! It’s always easy for you to point your finger at others, but were you just one of them who had done the same thing? I think everyone is making such a fuss just because he is a celebrity.

All these negative comments will not help them! Does everybody want to see the breaking up of another family?? So let us not judge Jack Neo and give him and his family some space to mend their relationship. His future behaviour shall show whether or not he has learnt his lesson and repent…

To Jack : Be brave and be strong, protect your family as will God protects His children. All the best!

YY Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:44 am
我觉得梁太所做的不只是宽容，而是纵容，明明知道您有图谋不轨却睁着眼闭着眼不揭发不劝阻，她也是导致事件恶化的帮凶，我知道这样讲好残酷，不过是事实。还有，拜托你不要在罪恶之后才想到主耶稣，您犯罪时耶稣遗弃您了?

Buddha Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:49 am
Or mi tor for

路人甲 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:52 am
人非圣贤， 谁能无过？
现在他又没有没有不认错，
大家又在那里嘀咕什么呢？

什么叫做交代？
在众人面前吊颈，
还是把偷情过程一字不漏的诉说出来，
又或者是搬演片段？

我的确觉得他的家人很无辜，
受伤害很大，
那既然他的家人也肯原谅他，
他也肯站在媒体的面前认错，
我们这些外人， 还想怎样？
唉。。。

Crayon shinchan Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 8:53 am
I 41 yrs old this yrs,no gf b4.
can teach me how to get a gf?

Thanks alot
crayon

Cy Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 9:02 am
On the contrary to what wilson says, I believe its only the beginning. Perhaps life’s not about whether or not we can successfully dodge each and every wrong move; because more than often we can’t… perhaps the real test in life really is what we do after we’ve stumbled…. And i think you’ve done well… really…

Others, perhaps you yourself might doubt and despise your initial motives of coming clean (because you can’t hide it anymore, because it’s the easiest way out, who knows?).. but even if we can’t initially be sure that we were 100% sincere in our appologies…maybe not now, but one day.. one day…. I believe 100% will come to you eventually, if it hasn’t already, because there’s no way you don’t love your family more than yourself; and there’s no way you don’t wish that you could bear the sin, pain and shame you’ve caused them alone without involving your loves one right this moment…..

don’t let guilt hinder you from becoming what you can be, even at times like these where ppl like choosing guilt, because it’s less painful than reality, and because we feel better if we punish ourselves…

No doubt ppl, even some who didnt deserve it got hurt, and some wounds might never really recover. But i believe, i truly believe its what happens next that determines whether these hurts were worth it or not.. Life’s cant possibly be just about preventing scars, because we are just not built to be able to do it properly. Rather real strength and living might just really be about where the scars brings us. And if we are sincere enough, perhaps here is where we find the Truth of Life, because total acknowledgement about our weaknesses and ugliness brings us closer to our core, and total submission essentially draws us closer to out Maker… And these: the things you and your family learn, that intimacy gained with the Father, despite the pain, might be the most important things a person can ever hope to have in life..

I guess what i’m trying to say is, even if the law might condemn you, you probaly already know that your Father and His grace doesn’t (though it might be easier on our so call “conscience” to wallow in condemnation). Don’t struggle, brother…Let go of this burden than others are trying so hard to place on you…even if you feel that it’s yours to carry..don’t focus on this self reliance to gain rigtheousness and acceptance that seems so unachievable….The moon doesn’t hide its inabilty to shine or its imperfect craters by struggling to do so, it shines naturally by facing the sun….

I know its easier said than done, and i wish you peace….Know that you and your family are in good Hands. I am proud of ppl like you..not because of your past, but because i beleive in your future..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JIv-gfrse84

- Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 9:25 am
Learn from your mistake, Don’t ever let your family down again…

Jon Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 9:42 am
我记得有个故事是这么说的：

一些宗教领袖把一个行淫时被捉的妇人带到耶稣和众人面前，然后对耶稣说这妇人是因行淫而被捉的。他们也说，按当时的宗教律法，那妇人应该被众人用石头打死。他们问耶稣有什么意见，以刁难他。耶稣就对他们说“你们中间谁是没有犯过错误的（罪），谁就可以先拿石头打她。”众人听见了，就慢慢的走开了。

其实我们这些旁人都不过是旁观者，或许我们不再能够尊重你，不过我们也没资格拿起石头打你。我衷心的为你和家人祷告，婚外情对家庭是一个残酷的伤害，但在主里，他总能够把我们过犯的后果转变成最大的祝福。愿你和太太在重建婚姻时，耐性的等候他。

凯蒂 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 9:51 am
I would like to share my experience with your wife – I went through similar experience. I have kids too. I forgave my husband after some struggling. The process was so torturing till i suffered from depression without knowing. Tell your wife BE STRONG. Contact me if she need someone who went through the process…..

看到你就觉得噁心。 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 9:52 am
珊瑚海说得对。人不可貌相海水不可斗量。看你表面为人端正，还常常通过电影说出我们的心声带给国人欢笑，没想到你在被后却是这么一种人跟外面的女人搞三搞四还跟wendy在车上做了房事。真噁心。

梁智强。看看你名字里的“智”。你根本就是失去理智了。你到底有没有诚意道歉的？为何要用你老婆当挡箭牌？你这么无耻请不要用上帝来掩盖你的下流无耻，不知悔改。你在记者会上根本就是没诚意。倘若你真的见到上帝，主耶稣一定把你打入地狱! 请不要再提到上帝了。

你已经失信了。国人不只不会在支持你的鬼电影，下一次看到你也会重新评价你的人格。。

好好反省，等你觉得你诚心诚意想悔改，想道歉，才跟国人，你太太，你儿女，你伤害的无数的人，向他们鞠躬忏悔 跪地求饶！

keykey Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:30 am
（美凤和我会一起继续努力，经营成功和美满的婚姻）
你们的婚姻不会在有成功和美满，因为它有了污点。。（全因为你犯了大多数男人都会犯的错）
有资格拥有成功和美满婚姻的人，是不因诱惑而犯错的。。（全因为你不懂得珍惜和心疼她和你建立的家庭）

给梁太太：
如果真的辛苦，就离开吧。。
（爱）
不一定需要拥有。。（女人啊醒了吧！如何面对一个你今生最爱他而他却背叛你的男人呢？）
这男人给你的伤害，你对这男人从心底发出的疙瘩。。
离开，或许对你和他都好。。（他对给你带来的伤害感到内疚。接下来的日子他是因为爱呢？还是补偿呢？只有他自己才懂）
（家庭）
永远属于你的。。没有任何一个人可以夺走（勉强，欺骗自己会过的很好。。只会更辛苦）
真的辛苦就离开吧。。每天需要面对着背叛你的人和他睡同一张床。。

犯错了，求原谅。。就被原谅
可是，求不回的是‘信任’。。
一段感情，除了‘爱’更多的是‘信任’
人以人之间的感情可以很坚固也可以很怯弱

Jen Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:30 am
Jack, what is past is past. My wishes for you is that your family will be able to find peace and harmony again. It is not going to be easy for you and your family to avoid the criticisms of the public. However, I hope that you will not give up… at all times,look towards the LORD JESUS for healing. Ultimately, it is your relationship with GOD that matters most. When your relationship with GOD is right , then you will have a guiding light on how you relate to mankind. I dont mean to sound preachy but I REALLY want to wish you and your family well because JESUS loves YOU. He will never give up on you no matter what sins you have committed. All he ask for is repentance and ACKNOWLEDGEMENT that he is your saviour!

008807 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:31 am
Wendy ask 30 times to break with her, but you refused to let her go because you have not got enough of her sex.

Do you know you have ruin Wendy’s life ?!? She is still so young, i do not know how she going to face her long years ahead her life.

Jack, You pls ask yourself, how many women you have ruin in your 50 years ?

Jack, you should be canned in the jail !!!

Seth Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:31 am
You have brought shame to the name of Christ…

Janet Nioh Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:32 am
hi, i m fr Penang. ” As far as the east is fr the west, so far has He removed our transgressions fr us”- Psalms 103:12.

There is no sin too great for God 2 forgive, except if u sin against the Holy Spirit. Most important thing is, u r really remorseful, feel sorry, and REPENT. Everyone has sinned against God, even when v r already children of God, bt our Father is full of grace and mercy.. Repent, that’s what He wants us to do.

I m a lady, i know how ur wife feels.. both of u need time, and both of u need inner healing. Love ur wife, brother, for she is given 2 u by God. Love-with words n in actions. Continue 2 ask God 4 miracles in ur marriage, trust God with all ur heart.

I suggest u meditate on PSALM 103

Take care…

RT Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:34 am
3 issues at hand now.

1) Jteam. You build it up and groom the artists. They have feeling too. So I hope you will continue to rebuild them into a stronger outfit and reward your supporters. Just hope Mark Lee will support you too.

2). It take time. Hope time will heal the sorrow and injuries. Be patient as it may take another 5 to 10 years to regain the family trust.

3). Please do more charitable works, show to your fans your sincerity and regrets. Do charitable work to make up for your past wrong doing. Your supporters and fans are multi-religious, so PLEASE DO NOT RESTRICT YOURSELF TO ONE. It will be great if CITY HARVEST CHURCH will donate some monies to help u set up a multi-religious foundation to help the under-priviledges. This is a testing time for you to see who are your real friends.

But still I have to say… your past actions are just unjustificable in all human perspectives. Just wonder have you been guide wrongly?

Patrick Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:42 am
Well said Jocelyn. Jack and family, hope you all recover quickly and become a stronger family.

NG Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:44 am
Think this should be first and last chance for you. You should feel truly grateful you have such a great wife. She needs the most supports from all people. The pains of hurting not just stop here. It’ll will go on may be for a few years. It’s really not easy for a wife and a mother.

Irene, be strong, okay. Life still have to go on.

Angela Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:47 am
人都会犯错，但知错能改这是最要的！梁导，加油！！好好珍惜你的家人。

Ah Mei Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:54 am
“We are told that people stay in love because of chemistry, or because they remain intrigued with each other, because of many kindnesses, because of luck … But part of it has got to be forgiveness and gratefulness.” –Ellen Goodman

Samantha Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:55 am
Let he who has no sin throw the first stone. We all have made mistakes, though in different ways. God disciplines us as all good fathers do. In God, there’s always forgiveness, a new beginning. If you can’t win everyone’s approval and forgiveness, so be it. People are not the Judge, who are we to judge? If you pull through this storm,you will emerge stronger. You are talented, believe in yourselves. If you make good movies and they are good inspirations, people will come watch again. Jack & Irene, you have my prayers and blessings. God heals all wounds and will always work for your good,trust Him and His timing.

Derrick Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 10:59 am
Dear Jack,

Hope that you really learn from your mistakes,treasure your family ,loyalty fans and friends.You still have got a number of loyalty fans and friends with you.Do not let us down again.Be brave and move on.

Peng Yew Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:00 am
一切在于*自身*,在于*心之定力*。所有的神仙妖魔都在自身中，它是不会在于您困难／快乐远离／亲近您…是您远离您自已。

DC Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:01 am
洪水泛滥之时，耶和华坐着为王；耶和华坐着为王，直到永远。耶和华必赐力量给他的百姓，耶和华必赐平安的福给他的百姓。（诗篇 诗29:10，11）
问题不是主耶稣离你而去; 他永远坐着为王。问题是你在那里？

Velle Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:03 am
Hi Jack,

It must be really hard on your family for the past few days. It is a experience that most people will not have. Everyone makes mistakes but as long as one is willing to change for the better, there will always be hope and a chance. You really have a very wonderful and forgiving wife, so please do treasure her and this fmaily that you have. All the best! You have my support!

God bless!

阳阳

Josephine Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:04 am
Hi Jack….You made the choice and this and more will be your consequences.
It’s tough for you..it’s tougher for your spouse and kids.
Nonetheless….do not fall into the TRAP of condemnation.Go and fall into the GRACE OF GOD. Allow HIM to heal and restore you.Go to HIM with truth and honesty and LIVE again….for greater things! Greater things are yet to come ….DO NOT allow this exposure go to waste…USE IT and TURN IT AROUND …..to bring LIGHT and GLORY to Papa God.

ladytulip Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:06 am
上一位说得很对，你已经犯了基督教徒最严重的错误，你根本就没资格把耶稣给搬出来，你的所做所为，真是给我们基督教徒一大耻辱！

Jon 所说的故事，那个行淫的妇人是在认识主之前所干的，可是你已经是一个基督教徒了，还一而再再而三得做出这些见不得人的事，上帝怎么能那么轻易地原谅你？？？

请你不要再把上帝给搬出来了，真让人觉得恶心！！！

jessica Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:06 am
I have a question.
If your lady-mistress had not stepped out to expose this matter, would you have realised your wrong-doing?

小黑 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:06 am
although ur actions were not accpetable, but the most important thing is tat u still ve ur family with u. a lot of ppl ve been giving their own opinions abt ur story, ppl ve diffrent views, i hope u will bounce back and produce better movies in future, because i know “u not stupid” to repeat the same mistakes again. so next change will be 梁智强重出江湖!

PS Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:10 am
你的言谈举止根本就是不知悔改，这不只是婚外情，你是在欺骗无数的无知少女，你很无耻。不要忘了，你的嫩草只比你的女儿大三岁，将心比心，你要你的女儿遇到你这种男人和受到这种伤害吗？

Disappointed Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:12 am
Hi Jack,
I chance upon ur blog when my Dad says that I should read ur blog to see what you’ve got to say(He doesn’t know how to read Chinese). When the sandal broke out, intially my first thought was,”Is this a promotion thingy for your upcoming 做人 movie?” But news after news of the sandal broke out, I was shock, angry and surprise! Shock because I watched your 搞笑行动 since I was like 6 yrs old?(now 25) And I grew up together with your shows and your movie productions, all along, my image of you has been very good. To me, you were a good husband, a devoted father and a great director.

Angry because you didn’t chose to walk close with God and commit sins that could have been avoided and could have destroy your career and your family. Plus sometime ago Pastor did shared about “Making marriage work” which also address to issues you are in now. Didn’t any of the topics moved you at all? The press conference end abruptly. I understand that Irene could have fainted due to stress and pressure all these while plus those emotions that she has been keeping inside her heart even though people told her about your affair. No matter how strong a woman is on the outside, deep down in their heart, they are actually very fragile. They also need affection, care and concern from their husbands. She chose to trust you despite from all the hear-say in the early stage of your affair. I seriously admire her as a woman, to have to endure such pain that is beyond words. She could have chosen the easy way out to divroice you and leave with your kids but she didn’t. She chose to stay and go through this period of time with you. Be grateful of what you have. 人要懂的感恩

I understand there will not be anymore press conference but at least could you write to the newspaper of what actually happened? Your updates and all? I wish you all the best in your future productions and May God bless you and deliver you and your family through this tough period

ahha Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:12 am
Jack don make this site a religion properganda,we knew u as u were pls don put christ name in , let our relationship be what were don do like any other chrisitian to glorify god in every occassion. u r different keep it that way.

orangeel Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:13 am
加油~看了这些留言，发现到还是有人与我有同样想法的~
你的私生活与指导完全扯不上关系~
只要好的电影出炉，我还是一定会支持~
耶稣说的嘛，要原谅七十个七次~
你老婆都做到了，身为观众的我们又为何做不到呢？

继续加油！
祝你们幸福~

David Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:13 am
当做错事时，就假借耶稣圣名，认为既然耶稣能够原谅，那大家就应该原谅。
当你在左拥右抱时，你会不会认为这也是上帝给你的一种恩赐？那就让大家认同你的艳遇吧。
天大的笑话，天大的讽刺。
假如你的妻子也有同样的很多艳遇，你会像上帝一样去原谅她吗？（自私）
我相信药厂会拿你来代替“老牛吃嫩草”。
来一个，“一马当先，万女莫挡”吧。

johnny Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:14 am
Hope you have learn a lessom. what ever goes around,comes around.
Alway remember to be humble and treat people around you equally with sincere
Good luck to you

apple Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 11:16 am
作为你的影迷这么多年，你让我彻彻底底的失望！

你的形象一向来时很正面的，很顾家很爱老婆孩子，竟然搞外遇，让我惊震之余，也很痛心和失望。
站在女性立场，觉得你老婆被你伤害得太深了，很同情你老婆。如果你真爱她，怎么舍得如此的伤害她呢？我真的不明白，当你偷吃的时候，可有想到老婆的感受？你怎么吃得下去？

说真的，我无法也不想再支持你了，但我会祝福康美凤女士。希望康女士会坚强。

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梁志强一案带来的思考：

1 梁志强人品大致应该如何定论。

2 社会反响说明的问题：
1） 舆论对道德监控的力度持续走低。
2） 早报社论背后的笑话。
3） 多数网络评论站在一个莫名其妙的立场——梁志强陷在泥坑里了，自己却是品行完美，就算有考虑到自己的道德高度也忽略不计，一副高高在上的口气。这里面误区多多！首先对梁志强来说，基本上没有任何损失，反而因之备受关注，你以为他崴了，其实呢？这些发言者的定位可谓愚蠢。
其次，可见坡人的麻木程度。凡事都只会这么三言两语地浮浅思考，究竟种种世俗苦难可否找到妥帖的“人性关怀”？难怪国民幸福程度一路滑坡。

3 此案有没有触动？没有，或者说基本可以忽略。

4 导演本身和其作品可以截然分开吗？

5 没有哲思是愚人！现代人愚病不轻。

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梁智强婚外情风波：安顿太太孩子后　将一次过说清楚


● 李亦筠　报道
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杨荣文呼吁给予梁智强家人支持

　　梁智强的婚外情曝光后，圈内外一阵哗然，杨荣文部长也在博客撰文，他说事件曝光前，梁智强已亲自拨电告诉他事情的来龙去脉。他说当时梁太太在身边，他也要求与梁太太通电话，给予梁家精神上的支持。杨荣文希望人们在这个困难时期给予梁智强和他的家人支持，让他们顺利渡过这个难关，圆满解决问题。

　　杨荣文是在今年初和梁智强开设Blogkakis网站，并邀请白薇秀、郭明忠、Tracy Phillips和新大毕业生Vincent Ha一起写博客。一群博友常相约聚餐。

梁智强人品如何？这是风波促使人们去关注的一个问题。

现代社会毕竟是发展了，除了少数自己把自己（并非外力）“完全”浸淫在天真的宗教说辞里的三姑六婆以及等而下之的人，几乎没有人看到这个问题后会当它是一个问题。
一般人。普通人。正常人。不过是“犯了一般男人都会犯的错”。

个人而言，我觉得“一般”的评语对梁志强来说是公允的。
有人会对于他的“盛名”和“红利”提出置疑，可是有没有法律条规说过红人或富翁的道德尺度应该格外苛刻呢？没有！梁大导演金钱美女人缘名望通通捞了个滴水不漏，的确羡煞世人，然而那是人家头脑灵活又积极行动换来的，劝君平心静气，临渊羡鱼不如退而结网，更不必口沫飞溅夸大其词。客观点说，梁智强是“一般人”里的“能人”，亦庄亦谐能大能小，有市场为证，至于混下的产业、妻儿、庞大关系网、投怀送抱的女子，那都是力证。
因此，这桩事，只能客观表述为“能人崴泥”，最多可放一个“笨”字。庄严的人品文章爱好者可以休矣！在废除了“沉猪笼”以及宫、黥、劓、笞、杖、乱石打死等一系列针对性的刑罚之后，道德看客们基本上也被废了，越多计较，貌似只能暴露抨击者的失败和无聊。
何况，梁智强能压得住婆娘，这是“笨”上的“大巧”，不枉了又“智”又“强”的名字。和前段陈建斌鸡飞蛋打的案例相比，这边厢红旗不倒、彩旗在望，生活的精彩程度丝毫不减，真是强得很，智得妙！

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（接上文）
“杨荣文部长也在博客撰文，他说事件曝光前，梁智强已亲自拨电告诉他事情的来龙去脉。他说当时梁太太在身边，他也要求与梁太太通电话，给予梁家精神上的支持。杨荣文希望人们在这个困难时期给予梁智强和他的家人支持，让他们顺利渡过这个难关，圆满解决问题。”杨荣文部长一言九鼎之力，这个表态基本上就给此风流案定调、定性了。

真是令人无限唏嘘！！

梁智强之能堪为当世楷模，兼万世之表！
有人说是“幸运”“福气”之类，差矣差矣。馅饼不会从天而降，幸运和福气也不是没头苍蝇一般瞎飞乱撞！自古大德之士绝非无能之辈，原因就在这里：不是“德”祈来了“能”，而是“能”造就了“德”。
想以“德”名世么？有方法、要本事的，做白日梦没用，有空研究一下梁智强吧。

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舆论对道德监控的力度持续走低

在哲学网站谈谈这个问题是很有意思的。
说起来这事第一要怪美国！
第二要重新认识一下“舆论”。
第三要探讨社会制度和舆论的脱轨。

美国人民是无辜的。一个源于苦难和挣扎求存的移民社会，要求点自由和人权是无可厚非的。没有大统一的核心传统与文化，争取相安无事的最好口号就是自由、人权这些。
但是从根本上来说，移民文化是不应该着意培养的，其动荡的特性对安定局面来说是个克星。话说回来，过度的“自由”、过度的“人权”首先打击的就是公众舆论这一类的东西。对于一个大局、一个体系、一个社会而言，舆论就像一个人的皮肤毛发，除了修饰面貌，也有对骨骼内脏的保护作用。
美国就是这样，消除了舆论的阻碍也消除了舆论的保护，他们全社会都视激情为珍宝，以此脱胎换骨、滋颜养生，培育重要的创造力。这是有代价的，当事人安然付出就好。
万事无两全，选择需慎重。他们甩甩头让舆论见鬼去吧，一来二去舆论自己无地生发，倒也总体和谐、上下圆满。
怪就怪美国的强大。一强大了立刻成为举世瞩目的风向标，各种文化如同泛滥的江河，势不可挡地向世界各地滔滔侵入。新加坡本来就禀赋不足、水性善变，新新的一个四十多年的小国家一向如履薄冰。坡人深得其奥，学得快用得猛，可惜学得了美国人的个性，学不来美国人的认命，不出事就扮老美的潇洒，出了事还是再来拜老中的中庸，祈求家人支持社会谅解，像个新入选的太监，痛哭流涕表示顺从。
社会舆论让人感觉怪怪的，中庸的话上上下下说了一大堆，都是隔靴搔痒，离要害很远。
隐患还在，就还会出事。这才是问题。

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（接上文）关于“舆论”，一种定义是：
　　舆论是指在一定社会范围内，消除个人意见差异，反映社会知觉和集合意识的、多数人的共同意见。在舆论的定义中，最关键要讨论的是，舆论的本体是“意见”还是“态度”。
在梁氏风流案中，如果强调“态度”，那么看来梁导不光没输还赚了很多。杨荣文部长的发言是主流态度的缩影。有心为善的人们也都对梁氏夫妇劝和不劝分，大事化小，小事化了完结。其次，据说“有一干风流剑客拍案叫绝，大呼人不风流枉少年”（《早报》载文），这也是真实态度的写照，以男性为主。最后，和新加坡的“独善其身”的移民思维惯性有关，事不关己高高挂起，理你都觉得累。那么怎么还会有“意见”？
那看立场了，兔死狐悲物伤其类，阿嫂们养尊处优，闲来以督导社会舆论监视男人为己任，难得有触动的话题。这个，哪个机构有物力可以热心统计一下发言者的身份，大致是不差的。

笔者关注的问题是：在“伪舆论”和“真态度”的交织下，有谁真正对当事人付出深度关怀？几时坡人才可以正视这些不了了之的社会问题，切实解决问题提高和谐度？

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笔者早年就职于大中国，对其“舆论与体制接轨”的做法深有感触。阔别多年，物是人非，据说中国发生了巨大改变。农历年初二，新传媒八频道转播了部分“春晚”节目，还是看得出他们对于“个人问题”与职务还是没有完全脱轨的。
本地民风淳厚，大家说起来还是对舆论心存敬畏，畏惧它对事业的影响。不过一来行业不同情况也不同；二来这种制约基本限于公共关系，并不像中国以前在各种评比表格、晋升表格、选举表格中把群众认可度公然列为一栏。也就是说公众舆论如何，都和体制没有挂起钩来。理它作甚？如果你足够自信，不是活在别人的认可中的话。

鉴于中国的进步，以及世界发展的主流方向，可见反其道而行之是不可能的。
指出这一点，也是对舆论爱好者提个醒：对国家社会富有责任感是好事，但是时候改变策略，停止做无用功了。

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此案有没有触动？




梁氏风流案有没有触动？没有，或者说基本可以忽略。

沉默的自是沉默着，自重的也在沉默着。除了混饭的职责所在，制造“舆论”的无非是三姑六婆型的长舌妇、长舌男。他们的“触动”都是演给自己看着玩的，说到底是讲着过瘾，就算有所谓“触动”也是肤浅的。
如果有人说最触动的是梁妻康氏，有崩溃为证，有昏厥为证，有照片上的斑秃为证。
我看没有人不同情康氏。然而稍微关注多一点，大家就会发现在钟姓女模之前还有乐姓艺人。27年的婚姻不算短，有没有其他“触动”取决于梁导的行为方式，外人很难猜测，但无论如何，说康氏被嫩模“触动”，不够恰当，除非另外有医学报告说康氏智力有问题。
康氏的种种“被触动”如果不是情境使然加上演艺之家的耳濡目染，就是除了女人之外另有财产瓜分等困局来袭，不然第二次（？）都被触动成如此不堪的情状，那梁家不是成了活生生的人间地狱？
以梁氏的聪明，角色设计对他从来都不是难事。先找出安抚公众激愤的突破口，然后用“捆绑”的态势拜托无聊的三姑六婆施舍一点本来就泛滥的同情心，轻松过关，简直连难度都没有。
只是佩服他的好头脑、好手段，短时间内就可以按下《妇女保护宪章》罩着的婆娘们，可见自是别有过人之处，估计是天赋特长。

梁氏本人被触动？
除非指他被局面的失控而小小“触动”了一下。
不然真是看低了大导演满肚子的弯弯绕，也看小了“色胆”的尺寸，更小看了梁智强的名字。

当事女模被触动？有也不是现在，据说是“两年地下情”，心动了欲动了气动了都不是这当儿的事，眼下的该叫“发动”。个中情由大有奥妙，可惜没有人找出来拍一部电影，肯定比最近的表面风波热闹十倍不止。

有人在梁导的博客里跟帖说梁家的小孩被触动。这个角度太煽情了，也欠公正，多半是平时没有机会和名人沾边，所以发言前才没有三思。
“名父”之子，光彩和荣誉会常常“触动”他们，偶尔来点平常百姓家小孩会遇到的问题，不必为他们担额外的心吧？
难道说名人的家庭除了财富等优渥，心理屏障也该由社会一应奉献？
那位网友说梁智强有没有考虑过他的孩子在学校会被别人的异样眼光看，我看以梁导之“智”、之“强”，之五十岁的江湖历练，他不光考虑过，而且是深思熟虑对前后轻重都有了一个足以行动的考量之后，才去拈花惹草的。
热心网友如果觉得自己更“智”更“强”也不要紧，重要的是自身从旧时代的幻想中走出来，面对现实。现实的情况是推动新风潮的人，80后之后是90后。虽然有着“绵羊音”的东方少女曾轶可是个特例，也不要低估了90后普遍钢缆一样的神经。

这事搞得！
基本上是给公众制造话题呈现娱乐，梁氏风流案既不是第一个，也决不是最后一个。当事人既没有吃亏，也基本没有被“触动”。甚至连个“秋菊”都没有，可谓郁闷。劝那些讨伐梁导的长舌妇们，敷个脸歇歇去吧。

匆匆于洛杉矶

阳阳

嘿嘿，有深度！
好玩好玩

阳阳

谁可以回答：康美凤女士在记者会出来做什么？？

阳阳

我贴在梁智强博客的：

阳阳 Says: Your comment is awaiting moderation.
March 15th, 2010 at 10:27 am
梁导，希望你还好。相信以你的智商不会有什么问题。
对当事人而言，没有什么不公平，一切都是公平的。
之前我曾经抵触你的电影，认为只有“低俗”两个字可以奉送。后来我发觉可能要求太高了，几百万新加坡人里，能够找到途径把大家心声表达出来的，怎么说你梁智强都算一个。仅凭这份闯劲，希望你不要折旗，生活里难免有变奏，至少，活出你的个性来。加油！

阳阳

isaac Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:12 pm
hey people why can’t you people stop saying “i am disappointed in you” this and that…people do made mistake…no matter who…even god made mistake too…when you made a mistake you have to realise your own mistake doesn’t it enough ?…STOP making him like as through everything is his fault…part of it is his fault…but not totally…in this singapore…goverment said to everyone give prisoner a second chance right?…singaporean cannot push jack neo to death penlty right…didn’t jack neo made wonderful movie? all his life work always put up our singaporean lifestyle…our hard work…our hard life in this singapore…when you people are young you do made mistake than what your parent does ? forgive and forget right? no matter how big the issue is….even now jack neo had a affair outside…ok i can say is normal…in the oversea..in the state too…people have to be modern not close minded…singapore always move forward…but i can see singaporean are close minded instead open to everyhing…for an example someone does a mistake in the office the worker in that office will get scolding by that boss…but what is after that everyone forget about it…so ya Jack neo you shouldn’t care these type of people…Pull yourself together you still had a big war coming your way..which is winning your family heart back…eventhrough you destroy the image in their heart…you can try your best winning them by building back amend it…it take 5 mins to let a building goes down…but it takes 5 years to build it back to the place right…so ya…action speak louder than words…so man do take care yourself…don’t fall before you start fighting…you should try listen to one of your movie 爱都爱都 ost 冲冲冲…its may give you some motivition…don’t wory everything will be right back it is…if you try your best…k jia you jia you…anything i am right here if you need help

A brother. Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
Jack,

Like you, I am a fellow Christian. Even though we are well-acquainted with how God loathes our sin, we still sin sometime or another because it is part of the nature of our flesh. But that’s not an excuse for anyone.

After all:
“but each one is tempted when, by his own evil desire, he is dragged away and enticed. Then, after desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full-grown, gives birth to death.” —James 1:14-16

During this time, I would advice you to pray for God’s forgiveness more than anything else.
There’s a reason why you are in your current situation. Having your misdeeds exposed was God’s way of saving you, before you fall deeper into sin and end up in eternal hell. Or perhaps you have drifted too far away from God.

You can blame yourself all you want, but please remember to translate those feelings into action and a sense of urgency to steer back onto the right path. If you still love your God and your wife, and all your friends, please live right from now on.

“Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.”—Jack 1:12

He is waiting for you the pass this test.

You’ve spent so much of your life directing—now it’s God’s turn to direct you to his path. No tainted mark is too unforgivable. Re-evaluate your objectives in life and may you find true meaning in the gospel and live by it for the rest of your life.

That’s the only way you can evade temptation, and live righteously among the pitfalls and degenaration of this world. God bless you.

~ a concerned brother.

Minjmrhm Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:17 pm
Hi Jack,

I got a shock why all of a sudden everything burst out. Wow, people out there are clapping hands. Happy when you’re in trouble and having bad reputation.

Human tend to make mistake and you realised it. Not too late. Go back to your family as they need you and treasure their love. You have built your fame with their moral supports.

Remember, do not take all the negative remarks and be positive. Life have to move on. Back to your normal life. Be strong, take this as a challenge. Relax your mind and have a break.

Reasonable man points of view Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:25 pm
Cheating innocent girls(who are approximately same age as your daughter)by promising them bright career/future as a director. This kind of behavior is absolutely deplorable and shall not be condoned.
利用她们的弱点，来欺骗她人。
你也许有重新开始的机会，但出自于好心的小姑娘就不同了，她为了避免更多无辜受害者，挺身而出也因此而把她自己前途和梦想给毁了。你该当何罪！？
无法否认的是你有一个很伟大的妻子很爱惜家庭。很让人同情与敬佩，请你好好珍惜她。

-完-

Mei Mei Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:36 pm
You indeed have a truly gracious, wonderful wife. You must from now treasure her even more.. Not many women can do what she has done.. Irene, you have my support. Wish you well.

danny-TW Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:41 pm
基於理性的觀念跟想法
我會繼續支持你的電影
正如有些人說的
你只是對不起自己的老婆
首先要一直對老婆彌補你的過錯
畢竟這不是殺人重罪
只要當事人老婆可以原諒
我們外人確實沒有資格說話
但是不要在有下次了
再有下次 說真的就不可原諒了

我覺得大家只要是個腦袋成熟的人
相信不會對你的家人跟小孩怎樣的

但是我希望梁導梁大哥好好沉澱一下自己的心情
好好停一段時間
好好陪陪老婆補償老婆
順便可以好好寫一些劇本

Wendy Tay Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:41 pm
Hi Jack

Remember John 8 where the woman caught in adultery was brought before Jesus? Jesus said: Neither do I condemn you, go and sin no more.Realize Jesus said He did not give the woman condemnation and then this woman has the strength to SIN NO MORE.This woman received the gift of NO CONDEMNATION 1st.Stop beating yourself Jack, know that Jesus is already punished for your entire life of sins put together.Today many places and even churches said stop sinning first and then we forgive you. But thats not the Bible says…Hebrews 10:17:”AND THEIR SINS AND THEIR LAWLESS DEEDS I WILL REMEMBER NO MORE.” stop punishing yourself because Jesus has already took ALL your punishment, your entire life of wrongs was put on the body of Christ on the Cross and you are still of right standing before God because of what Jesus has done for you! Keep looking to Jesus who is your Righteouness

阳阳

bmw Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:42 pm
梁導!這一連幾天新聞幾乎都是你的事情連台灣新聞也不例外
我對這件事希望你好好加油吧人都是會犯錯的，希望你可以早
日走出傷痛在拍好看的戲給社會大眾跟支持你的人看，畢竟事
情也發生了你老婆也原諒你不必管別人說什麼嘴巴長在他身上
愛說什麼給ㄊ們說就好了加油我會繼續支持你的

AlanSgInKL Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:48 pm
I think everyone have already said what i wanted to write here. Anyways, i hope you change to be a better husband/father to you family. Please don’t let us fans down. I’ve been you fan since i was a little boy. To tell you the truth i was a bit shocked when i read the news about your affair though the newspaper here in KL.I wish you all the best in sorting out this mess.God Bless

Dave Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:48 pm
Hi Jack,

You are a famous artist in S’pore. Remember! Not only you, every move of an artist will be under the microscope (magnified) of its audience and fans becos’ they care about you. Too bad, unlike in film production, the mistake made is not reversible. Whether it is due to temptation, the spur moment of foolishness, or whatever reasons, (and I would think you have gone off the track because of your success. You have forgotten your true self), you have realised and the courage to acknowledge publicly that this is a mistake of yours.IT TAKES TIME TO HEAL.

Whether there is one, two, three or more affairs, that is not the focus. The point is how you conduct yourself from now on. LET TIME and YOUR ACTION PROVE IT. You have come so far, you achievements, your family (wife and children). What a pity to let it fall just that. ALWAYS LOOK BACK, what bring you the success and who is always behind you and your success. This should serve as a reminder for you in future. They are your motivation for success in the past, now and the future as well. Think about contributing back to the society (e.g. needies) if you can.

Whatever it takes, salvage the kinship. Once you miss it, it may not come by so easily, cherish it. Kinship – the true, ever lasting element that stay with us till the last moment of our lives. Jus a food for thought.

珍珍@小珍 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:50 pm
记得中学时期，听到梁导演写得：“不要以为自己没有用”激励了我。而且很欣赏他的才华。人非圣贤，孰能无过？当一个人的隐私赤裸裸地呈现在大家眼前，受伤害的不单单是那些女模，当事人、其妻子、家人都牵涉其中。。。他只不过是犯了一般男人会犯的错，就这样毁了他的一切，未免太残忍了吧?images是很重要，没错，可是试想一个人要鼓起多大的勇气，在大众面前忏悔？？时间会冲淡一切，希望梁导演可以和妻子努力地克服，携手捍卫这段婚姻。支持你~~

kenny ng Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:51 pm
“我也会更加小心自己的言行举止和对待所有女生的方式，避免引起误会”

is this meant to be an apology or a joke? you mean you have been 不小心 sending those messages repeatedly to different girls, young and old, for the past few years?

or is it that u mean u shdn be more careful when expressing your love to them… that u shdnt leave any evidence for the girls to show the messages to the media?

thanks jack, you are really a comedian.. even your apology must joke also.

Toto Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:53 pm
“人”
你懂得写，懂得拍，懂得导。。
但是你懂得做吗？？
简简单单两笔画。。
你却把它写成 “叉”(X) ！！！

Scale-of-Justice Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 3:56 pm
You keep apologizing to your wife and the public. How about those young girls who were involved with you? Shouldn’t you apologize to them for your abuse of authority?

Sui Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:02 pm
第七條　 不可姦淫；
第八條　 不可偷盜；
第九條　 不可作假見證；
第十條　 不可貪心。
梁倒，您都犯了哪条？汗颜啊！

Give Grace Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:05 pm
Jack & Irene, Take a break from all the condemnation and seek God’s grace. Irene， I know this is the toughest time in yr life and I can understand how u and yr children are going through as I had been through myself. Jack, hope that you will treasure yr wife more and u have to rebuild the trust that u have broken in yr wife and yr 4 lovely children. I really pity them as u r a celebrity but they have to endure with all looks from others. Public pls give them time to heal their family first, we are really not in any position to judge him. I really support what Jocelyn(19th comment’s) had said. Go for family counselling if u can and let Irene let go all the anger that she has inside although she has forgiven u. Seek God’s guiding in your path!!!!!!!!
May God Blessing shower You All In This Difficult Time.

Gillian Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:08 pm
I am a fan of your movies and have been watching them since young. I know that I am in no position to judge, and what more I am only a 20 yo kid. However, I hope that my comments can take you back to reflect upon your actions.

As much as I wanted to support you through this tough time, I must say that I am utterly disappointed with your actions. I do not know what prompted you to have extra-marital affairs and to be unfaithful to your wife, be it lust, greed or selfishness, you have hurt so many people who love you, people who really matter to you.

The person you hurt the most is probably your wife. She, now has to suffer because of what you did. While she loves you unconditionally, what have you done to her? Is that what she really deserves?

At times like this, you have to accept that people will be angry at you, people will criticize you, and people might not forgive you for what you’ve done. Have you ever thought about the consequences when you commit those affairs? You might wish that this day will never come, but face it, this is the time to be responsible for your own actions.

I really hope that you are truly remorseful and hopefully, you will be faithful to your wife from now on. The fact that you were having affairs not just once, but multiple times, shows that you are not someone who will change to the better unless you receive the punishment you deserved. Hence, I hope that after this incident, you will become a better man.

It is so true that behind every successful man, there is a woman; but if you have way too many women, you are doomed to fail, soon, if not now.

阳阳

恩玲 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:11 pm
Hi 梁导,

我非常支持你想改过自新的念头，也因为这样使我会更加想要支持你的才华和电影。加油！

你的犯错让我们看见人不是完美的事实。就算是大人物，你们也不过是平凡人。

你已经说明了你的立场，也承认了你自己的错。不管是通过媒体对大众道歉，或是对你的亲朋好友道歉，或是（更重要的）对上帝表明了你想悔改的决定，我相信你已经尽力了。

那些正在批判你的人仍继续批判下去，有些人从支持梁导变成恨梁导-那是因为他们无法接受人不是完美的事实。希望梁导不需要为这些仍活在自己的梦想世界里感到过于的内疚。

最重要的还是学习如何跌倒了爬起来。I believe Christ’s resurrection power will be upon your situation and to heal the relationships between you and your wife, and your children.

新加坡需要你的才华和天赋。你还是我心目中很有本事的梁导演！

八爷 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:21 pm
上帝是不会离开你的，上帝在你搞外遇的时候就在看着你。看着你什么时候能觉悟，看着你什么时候能明白，看着你什么时候能回头。

不要指望上帝给你原谅，上帝只能给你力量去获得原谅。不是自己原谅自己，是来至受害人的，来至家人的，来至朋友的原谅。

人就是这样，等到落魄的时候才想起上帝。犯贱！

Kc Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:22 pm
Mr Neo not only prey on 16 yrs old kids ,this include those married womman with husband and children as well.Your acts cant be forgiven .Your action with those married woman might even lead to the breakup of their family .

For those who commented that we should give him chance ,pls reconsider again.He has been given more than a second chance .From the media reports ,he played around with 11 gals .So that means 11 chances have been given.One of the 16 yrs old french gal even gave him chances by warning that police report will be file against him if he continue but that does not deter him.

And for those who push the blame to the victims by saying it needs 2 hands to clap,then what about those gals who rejected his advance?Did they deserve the sex harrasement from MR Neo?Lastly ,did God condone and encorage adlutery?Now even a transexual is involve .

Mr Neo ,two words for u .Total demolish for your image and career .

death note Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:22 pm
haha… you is an actor.. you sure your tears is real… or just telling the whole world how pity you are now…

this is your own problem, dont understand why u should bring up to the TV…

SHAME ON YOU!!!

JJ Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:25 pm
Jack Neo, you are a bastard. Unfaithful to your wife yet push her to face the media. Look at Tiger Wood, he faced the media on his own. Yes, this is your personal affairs, we have no right to say anything, but bear in mind, if you still want to make a living in filming you have to depend on us.

Life still have to go on. We hope you wake up after this incident. Take good care of your wife who is the woman behind you. You are lucky, because of her, most of us are willing to forgive you. And hope you be more humble if you are successful.

Tell you the truth, a lot of us hate you even without this incident. This incident could be a blessing, hope you can started all over again and let us see the humble side of you. Good luck and mya God bless you and your family.

Tan Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:32 pm
Perhap you are a public figure which easily catches attention. This often happened to any public figure. Although you are wrong in the first place, Everyone deserve a second chance as long as you are willing to change and be good. Your family had given their best support to you. Please do not let them down again. All the best!!!

also50 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:45 pm
你以为你是谁，犯了错还学 Tiger Wood 开记者招待会。还把可怜的老婆推出去面对公众！你人格太差了，专门欺负女人！！！你的报应何止你目前所看到的，还有将来‘来世呢，将来有你受的了！！！

en Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:45 pm
After following this scandal for the whole week, I can’t help but to think that Jack Neo is a victim himself. Especially after last night’s 前线追终 interview with Foyce. This girl and the others who claim that they were hit on by Jack Neo are just out to get him. If Jack Neo is nasty, he could have say that Foyce threw herself at him instead. Foyce is out to gain some publicity for herself. But 梁智强，你应该跟 Wendy Chong 道歉。Even if the apology is a private one, you should say sorry to her for causing hurt to her. Anyway 加油!

Jackhead Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:48 pm
I say boycott all Jackhead’s films. You not stupid, you VERY stupid!

what is, is Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 4:58 pm
Jerk Neo,
Money is really not enough for you. You also craved for public recognition and YOU GOT IT ! Cultural Medallion award! You do not deserve it! you are NOT worthy to be called a Singaporean. You do not lead by example and have no honour. YOU USED YOUR WIFE AS A SHIELD! you are a coward and exploited and abused your position of power and abused YOUNG WOMEN! NO SINGAPOREAN WILL TRUST YOU AS A HUMAN BEING EVEN! I WILL NOT TRUST YOU AROUND WOMEN! THROW BACK YOUR CULTURAL MEDALLION AWARD, YOU MAKE IT DIRTY AND YOU MAKE ALL SINGAPOREAN MEN ASHAMED!! NO AMOUNT OF SORRYS CAN REVIVE YOUR CAREER UNLESS YOU GIVE BACK YOUR AWARD.

阳阳

what is, is Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:00 pm
ONE DAY YOUR CHILDREN WILL PREYED ON BY PAEDOPHILES. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE THAT.

Anoymous Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:04 pm
Let this trial be a lesson learnt… life is such we have to learn from mistakes and move on… where we fall.

Let time to heal the pain, sorrows. Sometimes a real life sad biography can be well share in publish into a book or even a movie show…

At this meantime, hope you will take time to recover. When you have recovered, start again be that better man share your life testimony share with others do not fall into such tempation.

May God bless you

Justin Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:10 pm
Jack, I thought your tears are not real. Athough you are an actor but I still cannot see the sincerity from you. You did not apologized to the girls you have hurt over the years. Be brave to face the media’s questions. Don’t hide like a mouse. Live like a man and cry like a man.

steve Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:12 pm
Indeed, nobody can judge Jack, not even the Super Being, except his own family! Many have questioned what if the so-called victim is your own daughter. So what? If your own daughter is doing it willingly and not being forced into it, she has only herself to be blamed – maybe her parents ought to be blamed too for her upbringing.

To those so-called victimes, stop telling us how pitiful your are. If you are a willing party, no one will sympathize with you. However,if your are a true victim and was being forced into it, then report it to the police and let the State protect you and press charges against him, otherwise, zip your mouth and stop pretending.

Truly, we all should give Jack and his family a break and not be critical all the time. You see, when he did not apologize, some people think that he is not forthcoming and trying to evade the issue. But, when he apologizes, some groups think that he is put up an act and lack of sincerity etc.

To criticise him with all sort of negative remarks is totally unless at this point in time. Most importantly, his family has fogiven him. We should therefore join the Neo family and give him the utmost support and encouragement. The media too, come on, give your countryman a break and let them go on with their lives!!! I am sure you have othere stories to tell…

Lastly, to those who choose to BELIEVE those so-called victims. What makes you think that they are not lying???

下半身 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:13 pm
什么婚外情是家事? 什么是乘人之危? 借年轻女孩爱慕虚容的弱点,利用职权上的便利来满足梁大导演个人的私欲.不是嗎? 在这部分上完全没有一絲悔过的心态.

如果梁大导演的胡搞不被公開的話, 谁敢擔保梁大导演會自動地約束下半部嗎?

网上一些邏輯是”被發現了,就悔改? 不被發現的話,放心,請繼續亂槍掃射嗎?”.

好奇問一下, 这些信仰是不是没有报应,忏悔就能上天堂的那種?

Johnny Tng Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:19 pm
Jack, you may feel that you have fallen from grace in the eyes of the public but you would never fall from God’s grace because you are the righteousness of God in Christ forever. You cannot run from Him because you are the slave of Righteousness. You ask for it! In time like this, your good friends may leave you but He never forsakes you.

Christ was condemned for our transgressions so that we are made righteous. You are just as righteousness as before in the sight of God because He see the blood of His Son. God remember our sins no more.

Our wrongdoing does not disqualify us from the grace (unmerited favor) of God because Christ qualifies us eternally through His own blood. His gift of forgiveness of sins is irrevocable. If we honor His word, He will honor us.

So, come boldly with confidence to the throne of grace so that you may receive mercy and find grace to help in time like this. You are His beloved son.
_________________________________________________________

The Pharisees wanted to condemn the woman who was caught in the act of committing adultery by stoning. Interestingly, Jesus said to them, “He who is WITHOUT SIN among you, let him be the first to throw a stone at her.”

Beware of Satan, the accuser of the brethren (Rev 12:10, Zech 3:1). He is the persecutor in the court of Law who brings charges against believers. His ultimate purpose is to condemn. He said, “Now in the Law, Moses commanded us to stone such women….”

Instead, Jesus turned to the woman and said, “I do not condemn you, either. Go. From now on sin no more.” It is this gift of no condemnation that gave the woman the power to sin no more.

Believe it or not! The power of sin is the Law (1 Co15:56). This is observed in the Bible, “Now in the Law, Moses commanded us to stone such women.” The Law refers to the Ten Commandments, thou shall not commit adultery. The letter, the Law, kills (2 Co 3:6), is a ministry of death (2 Co 3:7), and is a ministry of condemnation (2 Co 3:9). Thank God, Christ is the end of the Law.

The Bible said, “Sin shall not have be master over you, for you are not under Law but under grace.” (Romans 6:14) Literally, if we try to keep the Law and sin not we immediately places ourselves under dominion of sin, fallen from grace (Ga 5:4). We literally re-arm Satan because the power of sin is the Law. Christ had already disarmed Satan and stripped off his power.

In the Parable, the prodigal son returned to his Father not because he had repented but for reason that he was dying with hunger. He had no bread (speaks of Christ) to eat and yet when the Father saw him from a distance felt compassion for him, and ran, and embraced him, and kissed him. This is the love of our Father, so deep.

In every page that I turned in the Bible, the teachers of Law were never able to keep the Law though they taught others to do so. For example, in John 7:19, Jesus said to the Pharisee, “Did not Moses give you the Law, and yet none of you carries out the Law? Why do you seek to kill Me?” They broke the Law, thou shall not commit murder.

Does it mean that we can sin? No, God hate sins. In our flesh (self-effort), we are not able to keep the Law and sin not. Self-effort is only outward behavior modification and inside is defiled. Only God who is workings in us can transform from the inside out. He looks at our heart. Charles Spurgeon said, “The inward work must be supernatural.”

Does anyone commit the same wrongdoing as Jack Neo? Jesus said whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. How perfect is the Law! So, let none of us be the one to throw the stone.

Life in the Spirit is one that is not dependent on our flesh (self effort); our performance to do good things but is centered on the finished works of Christ on the cross. Do not walk in the flesh, but according to the Spirit. There is no balance, half flesh and half Spirit.

Johnny Tng Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:20 pm
Jack, you may feel that you have fallen from grace in the eyes of the public but you would never fall from God’s grace because you are the righteousness of God in Christ forever. You cannot run from Him because you are the slave of Righteousness. You ask for it! In time like this, your good friends may leave you but He never forsakes you.

Christ was condemned for our transgressions so that we are made righteous. You are just as righteousness as before in the sight of God because He see the blood of His Son. God remember our sins no more.

Our wrongdoing does not disqualify us from the grace (unmerited favor) of God because Christ qualifies us eternally through His own blood. His gift of forgiveness of sins is irrevocable. If we honor His word, He will honor us.

So, come boldly with confidence to the throne of grace so that you may receive mercy and find grace to help in time like this. You are His beloved son.

Mrs Goh Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:21 pm
Hi Jack,

I am surprised and glad that you are a Christian and I thank you God for that. Be rest assured, Christ will not leave or forsake you. Just cling to Him for forgiveness and for strength. Keep the commandments of the Lord in your heart and He will show you His plan for you. Just dont betray again. Go for a holiday with your family and enjoy.

Most of us, I believe, will pray for Irene and you. Only God can heal her wound.

God blessed!

dxpy Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:26 pm
这个我认识了二十年的老朋友；竟然搞上了一个可以当他女儿的小女生。还带着她开房、在车上玩车震等等。。。真的有点傻眼。我当年认识你的时候；你还是个没没无闻的小演员。就算你成名之后。我还时有去支持一下他的电影。《梁婆婆。重出江湖》《钱不够用》等等。今天看到你爆出有‘婚外情’还是搞上一个可以当你女儿的小女生（对方才22岁。。而你的女儿才19岁）男人是否一有钱有名就搞鬼？？

我个人是很卑视这种行为；因为在我的印象中个性里；我一直认为‘男人’就该有担当；男人不该让女人流泪。既然已经结婚了，就要对自己的婚姻忠诚，不能因为有了钱就找借口在外面‘拈；花惹草’。这是对女人、对老婆、对孩子的不尊重。不能因为你发财了。不能因为你有几个臭铜板就以为全世界的女人都是你的玩物。

这是什么世界
我最讨厌的就是见一个爱一个或者是一脚踏着两条船的男人；虽然说：

男人不坏、女人不爱

但是有必要伤害一个和你共同走了半辈子的老婆和一直把你当偶像的孩子们吗？你在搞小女生的时候；有想过她的年龄其实可以当你的女儿了吗？你有想过如果你女儿也搞上一个年龄跟你一样的老头子；你做何感想？？真的很看不起你这样的男人。真的有一股冲动想扁你。

老朋友。。。
你该感到‘羞耻’也该感到‘惭愧’。。。因为你曾经让我们新加坡人感到‘骄傲’现在却在丢我们新加坡人的脸。 老朋友。。你倒底想怎么样？有钱就做怪。真的丢尽我们男人的脸。

public 1108 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:30 pm
jn team now like gangster

阳阳

connie Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:30 pm
我这次对你很失望！你的每一部电影我都一定会支持，你真的是人才！每一部都很棒！你的外遇可以不顾你的前途，未来着想，而为了自己利益而出卖了你，每一个你对他们有意思的女人都要让你难看，对报章大肆公开你丑陋的一面！！！你老婆虽然早已知道你外面的事情，他还是静静的默默承受，为你守秘密；事情揭发之后他还是站在你前面为你当子弹，这种老婆哪里找！！！你真的好改咯！希望这件事过后可以看到你变成好那男人，为家庭老婆孩子想想吧！！！我还是会支持你的！放心！

HelloJACK Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:35 pm
Yo Bro!
Want play soccer?

Ken Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:36 pm
我深信，主耶稣不会在苦难的时候离我而去的。

我也深信，这两年来，主耶稣也教导你甚末是知足常乐。

主耶稣赐你一好太太，珍惜她吧！

愿主再一次祝福你倆。

Stuart Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:37 pm
would suggest you to intoduce with new show name ….. with following sure gonna be a big hit in cinema…

1. 錢不夠用 = 女人不夠用…

2. 小孩不笨 = 女人不笨…

3. Mitsubishi = 擦擦這裡, 摸摸那裡………..

Cactus Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:38 pm
If you are nobody – this is your private matter, who are we to judge you?

But as a public figure – you have the responsibility to be a role model.

cat Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:48 pm
truth to be told, i am rather disappointed in you.
even when i watched the interview of you and your wife. i felt that you were acting. it didn’t seem sincere, nor did it seem it to be from the bottom of your heart.
what i felt was that you thought, ‘ah, just a few more months and all this will be over.’
it maybe what you have thought, it may not.
whatever it is, i would like you to think.

it takes years for trust and love to build up, but it can take a mere 3 seconds for it to all crumble down.

and that was what you have done to your wife and children.
you said that you want to emphasize on the fact that it was soley your fault, not your wife. isn’t that something obvious? why would you want to blame your wife? for not pleasuring you in bed or her treating the way you wanted her to?

your wife love you for who you are why did you not bear that in mind every time you kiss a face that is not your wife?
you knew that it would be exposed one day, you knew that your wife and family would be hurt and scarred by this. yet, why do you still do it? all i see and hear are excuses now. but it does not matter.

whatever it is, good luck with you gaining back the trust and love from your family.
the media and your fans will never look the same way at you again.
and i too hope, that that will be the last time i see you and your wife being interviewed.

remember. time may heals all wounds, no matter how deep.
but the scars are there and will always be.

take care of your wife while you still can, while you can still be proud calling yourself a husband to your wife. and a father to your kids.

god bless you and your family. take this chance, before it is far too late to even think about it.

Elias Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:54 pm
错误不会令人失去价值，只会更增值生命，执迷不悟和放弃才会贬低生命的价值。

大家的反应，代表着过去他们对你的支持和看重，期望越高，失望自然越大。负面的反应只是强化你对这错误的感受，帮助你更有能力避免未来再犯同样和类似的错误，并不会贬低你生命的价值。
我们无法改变过去，但我们可以重新创造未来，过去你的生命祝福了许多人，这次的错误将成为你更大的资产，让你的生命能够帮助更多人。
过去你得到的支持是来自你的才华，所以越成功越令你膨胀，才令你迷失了自己。感恩有上帝的怜悯，让你及时领悟。未来你若要再获得支持已经无法靠自己的才华，只能靠你的生命和恩典。约翰一书：一章九节： “我们若承认自己的罪，　神是信实的、公义的，必定赦免我们的罪，洁净我们脱离一切不义。”你若已认罪，上帝已赦免你，你已获得这恩典的允许，不要再犯了，用你的新生命再去祝福更多人。

这经历给你的价值：
1）幸福，让你更体会和感受你妻子对你的真爱，没有礁石激不起漂亮的浪花，你的家庭和婚姻将更真实和美满，其实这次你若战胜这挑战，你才真的比以往更有资格成为模仿。不是顺顺利利才叫美满婚姻，要经得起考验的婚姻才能体会幸福。
2）谦卑，辉煌常令人骄傲，挫折让人学会谦卑。你既是梁家班的领袖，你的经验就是他们资产，今天新加坡的演艺能兴起那么多有才华的艺人和行业，你的贡献是不少的，如今你的生命也将祝福这些后起之秀，有前车之鉴，有学习的版样。试问你过去的经验有哪一件不是用你得用生命去换取的。很多人常把领袖的经验当里所当然，我希望你的班底要懂的感恩。
3）茁壮，你的孩子过去一直享受你的成功，也是时候让他们经历挫折，免得娇生惯养。让他们体会成功者是要付出代价，权利和责任一不平衡，有时候会带来更大的破坏和杀伤力。孩子曾因你的成功骄傲，也当学习因你的错误承担代价。这对他们的生命和往后的成功更有帮助。

真诚的向你伤害过的人道歉，我们做错时必须敢于认错和道歉，但不要花精力去祈求别人的原谅，因上帝已饶恕你，无人能审判你。但要用上帝给你的恩典去祝福更多人，特别是你曾伤害过的人。道歉并非是要求得原谅，是为承担自己的错误。

祝福你！这件事完全没有影响你在我心中的地位和形象甚至价值，记住，你的人没问题，是你处理的反式出了问题，每个人都有盲点和成长的空间，继续加油！

Watermelon Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 5:55 pm
I am very, utterly and extremely disappointed at you. You have yet to get the lesson learned in this incident. You are totally irresponsible and don’t even have the courage to admit the past mistakes you have made, by denying those Neng Cao’s stories.
Hope you could quit the Singapore showbiz as I do not wish to see such a coward and shameful director in Singapore filming sector. You are truly ruining the clean Singapore showbiz image.

Christine Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:05 pm
Hey Jack to men natural yap 8 out of 10 will do “wrong thing” as they dun think for the consequences yet when having fun outside, but look no matter how a men betray the love one, things will be reveal out sooner or later. As a woman position once they really fall in love is hard to let go just like you can’t let go your family same thing cause they are important, so do her(scandal). To be honest i quite pity her(scandal)but too bad her immature thinking had brought her harm when she chosen the wrong path to be with a family man who can’t give her any future, obviously knew that ending won’t turn good for her. Anyway what you have done can’t be undone hope your wife and your children will forgive you and trust you one last time, it will definately take long time to let someone trust you back therefore you really have to prove it as action more than words. god bless you goo luck

梁婆婆supporter Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:06 pm
嗨,我是QQ.看到你最近的报道觉得很难过…记得小时后,只要看到梁婆婆的戏就会觉得很开心….真的,因为看了你的演出就会很开心很好笑….经过这一次,希望你能勇敢gia ki lai(站起来)…人总是会跌倒,最重要是自己跌倒自己爬…要懂得苦中做乐….我也希望你能够在演艺圈里能够东山再起….也不希望你退出演艺圈,因为这样就再也看不到你好笑的作品了….我一直都很喜欢看新加坡戏,也觉得全部演员都演得很厉害,希望自己能够当个艺人,所以我真的一直都有在看每部戏…好了,不说废话..最后希望智强大哥只要你是真心知错,我相信关心你的人一定能够原谅你的…还有要疼爱你家人,因为他们才是你精神的支主…记得不要放弃演艺圈哦….QQ和我的妹妹心仔永远永远是梁家的SUPPORTER…HUAT啊….

阳阳

梁婆婆supporter Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:10 pm
还有忘了和你&家人说耶稣爱你们哦…god bless u…

sharpeyes Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:13 pm
梁导所谓的告白真是避重就轻，不断地重复知道错了，怎不说说错在哪里了？还老拿老婆当挡箭牌，真不像个男人。
随着后续报道的曝光，我们看到这件事情不只是婚外情这么简单，还涉及多起性骚扰，性索取和性交易！
以前有媒体光环的眷顾，梁导春风得意。表面谦谦君子，背后却干着声色犬马，淫乱无度的生活，好虚伪啊！
别用虚假（竟然还搞笑地扯上上帝）和廉价的道歉继续欺骗大众的感情，现在不是继续施展导演才华的时候。
作为公众人物却做不良示范，亏你还好意思拍给你的电影取名《做人》，你的勇气和诚意比陈冠希还不如。

Katherine Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:15 pm
我看到了许多人留下的留言。 我也有一些心里话要说。 虽然你已经向媒体，家人道歉， 也象有些人所说的， 这是你的家事，真的于外人无关， 但为何人人都会那么生气呢？ 说真的。。我对你好失望。一个活了半个世纪的人这么会犯这样的错误。 不管你是有心或无心， 你已经伤害了你的家人。 身为一家之主的你， 失败了。彻底的失败了。 虽然那些女人爱慕虚荣， 但这不是你出轨的借口。 身为一个爸爸， 你有责任保护你的家人， 身为一个公共人物， 你有责任注意你的行为。 事情已经到了这个地步， 你应该好好的反醒。 “老虎” 虽然犯了同样的错， 但他没有牺牲家人来挽救他的事业。 而你却让你的妻子面对媒体来博取别人对她的同情，希望这件事可以静下来。。 这是你解决问题的方法吗？

该说的别人说了很多， 该做的你也做的很多， 不该做的你却做的更多。 也许多年以后大家会忘了这件事。 但在我的心目中，你错了就是错了。你说世人都会犯错，你不过是一个普通人。错。。 是难免的。。 这样是你所为的忏悔吗。。 到这时候你还在为自己找借口。。

梁智强－ 你的智商。。。 真的有很强吗？难道你还不知道。。 你的信用。 刷暴了。。 你现在说的每一句话听起来。。 都会让人心寒。。 信任是需要时间建立起来。。 可是当你把它摧毁了。。。 它永远不会再回来。 。。

Jocelyn Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:15 pm
TO: Lynn, statement no 23,

In the first place, I do not feel that the girl deserve any pity at all. For someone as old as her, she should be ‘mature’ or ’sensible’ enough to know from the start that it is wrong to even start the relationship with him, isn;t it right? Do you think she deserve any apology too? From the reports, it seems like she is a willingly party! Remember what I mentioned earlier; one has to bear the consequences of what he/she does. It also reflects on how the parents bring her up, isn’t it? Her parents should stop her from this relationship right? Instead they seem to encourage it…isn’t it? I am a woman myself and I do not believe in taking any sides. I feel that the public feel sorry for the girl, which is in fact RIDICULOUS! What apology should she get? No, she DO NOT deserve any!!! She is the willingly party! So I urge you to look at the bigger picture.

devil&angel Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:17 pm
Hi Jack,

Been a fan from the time u were a comedian til a director.
This is a bad time… I understand how u feel as a Man.

Hmm looking at all the comments posted by the rest shows a lot of disappointment from the fans. Well…. its like that dun worry abt it.
After all we are all humans, we make mistakes. And We love you.

But i really hate it when they scold you….. I see no point. What is really important is ur wife and family.
U should have think of how she stood with u when u were nothing so show her with extreme concern and love now is most important.

The kids may have pressure in School especially being laughed by other kids in school so try ur best to protect them.

And most probably other people whom u offend or u disturb them previously may cme out and point fingers….
But dun worry these pple whether they are genuine or fake… too much of such stuffs wold only be seen as bullshit!!!!

And to ALL die-hard fans of Jack.. What is the problem???? so what if he is a flirt ? He is a HUMAN….. What is important is that he still loves his wife and children…? He did his duty as a husband ,he bring bread and butter to family… So let him handle the problems now…. we just keep quiet and support him in slience….

WHen a Man has power and money , we tend to be proud & arrogant but i strongly belive Jack you alrdy know what needs to be done.

I just hope that you climb up again. Your movies are Singapore’s signature… and i believe all ur fans will support you.

And to all those pple who intends to put down Jack…..

” BACK OFF ….. Dun Add OIL TO FIRE…. Be
fore you point ur fingers , Look in the Mirror!!! How well have YOU Manage UR OWn LIfe? Are YOU PERFECT???”

Last but not least,

Jack though this series of problems may be a bad ting.. but on the other hand, its a good time to look around and see who is thruly ur frens…

So GAMBATE and yes u are still our favourite Jack Neo.

Jack Teng Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:25 pm
My advice to you is once for all admit what you have done right from the beginning. DO not tell half true stories.
You may have only one affair. But do you harrass the other ladies.

kaiting Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:37 pm
jack,

虽然这次是你的错，但看了你的press conference和对媒体所说的话，我相信你是真的有心悔改的。从今以后，你一定要更加珍惜那默默支持和爱你的太太美凤，不可忘记这次的教训。

我算是你其中一个忠实影迷吧，因为我一直以来都会去看你所有制作的戏，可说是一路来，你的电视节目和电影一直以来都陪着我长大的。所以发生这种事，令我感到非常惊讶，没想过这种事会发生在你的身上。虽然发生这种事，我要跟你说，我还是会继续支持你的。不要气馁，因为这不是end of the world，而是生命中的另一个开始。

希望你和irene都会坚强。不要因而放弃，因为还有我们这些默默支持你们的粉丝都不想看到你们俩到下。加油! You and irene have my blessings! Do take care!

失望的人 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:41 pm
记者会那场戏好烂。我们无法再支持你了。

dominic pok Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:43 pm
i feel that since jack neo had already apologized to the public and the person that concern, i feel those who should leave them alone and let them have some space .. jack neo i want to tell you i think you are brave man and you got my respect for them which i can learn from you … jia you you are still the same director i know … god bless you and i believe that God will bring you through this storm

Nicole Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:43 pm
梁导，我10岁的儿子都知道你的丑事了，他告诉我你是坏人，真不要脸。你已没有资格再谈‘家庭’了。找个地方躲起来吧。
恶心

阳阳

支持你的影迷 Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:48 pm
梁导， 你所犯的错是天下男人都会犯的错，有哪些男人敢站出来说自己这一生中没有犯过这种错？ 最重要是知错能改，过去的就让它过去，最重要的是将来。
无可否认你的电影是得到认同的，时间会冲淡一切，现在就好好休息好好陪陪家人，再回来将好的电影带给大家，我与家人都会支持你的！！！！加油！！

Clement Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:53 pm
All the best! God bless!

Ping Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:54 pm
奇异恩典，何等甘甜，
我罪已得赦免；
前我失丧，进被寻回，
瞎眼进得看见。

如此恩典，使我敬畏，
使我心得安慰；
初信之时，既蒙恩惠，
真是何等宝贵！

许多危险，试炼网罗，
我已安然经过；
靠主恩典，完全不怕，
更引导我归家。

智强导演，献上这首经典的赞美诗给你。上帝的恩典与爱是何等长阔高深（以弗所书3:18），任由信祂之人所支取。

Today is the FIRST DAY of the rest of our LIFE! 加油！

梁婆婆SUPPORTER Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:55 pm
给所有的读者: 我不知道这样写会不会引人讨厌,但是我也是有站在自己立场的权力….希望你们读了会认同…我希望你们能够给他一次改过的机会…也给他机会弥补他对家人的伤害…我们是人他也是人,难道人没做错过的吗?为什么就只拿臭鸡蛋往他丢但你们没有想过很多事情是一支手掌拍不响的…这种东西不是你情我愿的吗?怎么只能怪一个人…难道某人不知道他有家室吗?!一路以来都是梁大哥带给我们欢乐..难道现在不应该轮到我们给于他支持吗?我相信这也是她太太及家人最需要的..虽然这段时间他们会很煎熬地走下去,但起码他有我们的支持啊!我明白现在他已成为大众所谓的”人渣”,但是,你没看到梁太太的心酸吗?她真的很需要我们大家的支持.可能你们会说,既然梁太如此地痛苦,为何当初还要一次次地原谅他,就因为爱他及家庭啊!这次的创伤我相信梁大哥已经”领教”了!朋友们,该说的就说了,你们决定吧….我选择原谅他…

Patricia Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 6:59 pm
Hi Jack,
无论你是否真心悔改， 我们无从知道，因为人心难测。你的心唯独上帝知道。It is really between you and God. 但我可以肯定的，也是神在圣经里说的。。耶稣是不会离弃你的。Yes, He will not leave you or forsake you, and His grace is sufficient for you. 希望你在这段时间能专心仰望主。。He is the only one that can deliver you.
衷心希望你和家人走出阴霾，重新建立美满生活。希望能见到更强的智强重现！

Irene, 辛苦你了！ 你做得好！我支持你！

David Woon Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 7:01 pm
Hi Jack, I have been watching your movies and shows since I was a young child and hence, this incident is really very unexpected…

As a fan, I accept your apology because you’re just human and have realized your folly. I hope you’ll emerge stronger than ever from this episode and continue to make good movies to promote family values that will prevent similar incidents.

You have a most wonderful wife, so please treasure her and remember: “Action speaks louder than words” – so move on and live out your promises.

It’ll take time but I’m sure that with your sincerity and concrete actions, you’ll win your family and your fans back. Will keep you & your family in my prayers.

Stop it Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 7:02 pm
You people are very funny, keep saying Mr Neo did not explain enough during the press conference, he did not explain what happened actually and etc… what do you guys want him to explain???!!Explain what??!!!!!

He already admitted the whole extra—marital affair and got his wife and children to forgive him, what else do you guys want him to explain??!!!!
Explain why he had extra—marital affair? Explain what is he going to do about it? Explain what?! He only needs to explain to his family members what is he going to do about it, not to us!!

Many people wants Mr Neo to apolagize to the entire Singaporean, for what? Ok, if he really does that, which means he also apolagize to my little nephew (who is also a singaporean) but my little nephew dont even know who is Jack Neo becos he is only 3 years old, so for what?

Look at Edison Chen and Tigerwoods, said sorry to the entire country but in the end, still got people said they are fake. Apolagize also make noise, dont apologize also make noise!!

Just hope Mr Neo will learn his lesson and move on with his life with his family.

weienf Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 7:12 pm
You’ve totally disappointed me and i am really shocked about the news..
Now i’ve finally realised looks can really be deceiving.

You disgraced all men, and ruined the girls…
I felt that you deserve this.
It’s just karma.

But i’m really glad that you’ve realised your mistake (i hope you really did) and i will still continue to support your movies because i feel that you have all the potential to create good movies and all your movies have been great, also i think that this incident has nothing to do with your movies.
I’m always inspired by them.

Good luck Jack,
be a better husband, father and role model.

I pray for you.

faith lee Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 7:18 pm
i support u!

Ling Hu Says:
March 13th, 2010 at 7:18 pm
嗯，你选择幼模。